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She’s Wearing Less, Going Out More.

Nov 20, 2024
There’s something you need to understand.
 
When I say, “understand” I truly mean understand this.
 
Take as long as you need to make this click in your head, because when it clicks (and it will) you will never forget it.

“Not all that glitters is gold.
Not all that is pretty is beautiful.”

It doesn’t take much effort to look around and see the truth in what I’m saying.

Women, who dress basically naked. In this modern age, everyone knows what I'm talking about. When you're at the club, gym, or even the grocery store, it seems like women are wearing less. If women dress a certain way, that is their prerogative. I am not bashing women here. I just want to shed light on something I noticed.
 
What I want to bring to your attention is this... it seems to me that the women who wear the least amount of clothing get the most attention but have the least to offer you the more you get to know them.
 
What do I mean by this?
 
Character. I mean true character of a beautiful woman.
 
In my experience, the women that I've met who love dressing this way, were the ones who were just here for a season. That is, there was no substance in them. Physical attraction will make you want to chase her, but what she has to offer you will make you want to keep her.
 
Their character was not where I wanted it to be. Thier only focus and priorities were to look and feel good. Not really caring to learn how to be a great woman. That is, a woman who has great qualities altogether.
 
Qualities like...
  • Her personality
  • Her honesty
  • Her skills
  • Her intellect
  • Her behavior towards others and in certain environments
  • How she deals with stress and conflict
  • Her habits.
 
What I'm saying suggesting is that, in my experience, women who would choose to wear less, wear more revealing clothing, have much less to offer you. It's if they wear less to get your attention because they do not have anything else to get your attention with.
 
Next time a woman catches your eye, or maybe when an ex comes to mind, is she wearing less and going out more?
 
Let this prompt you to ask yourself, "besides her body, and something nice to look at... what does she have to offer me?"
 
Take this seriously in your romantic life. Master it, because if you don't, you're going to be too attached at what your eyes are looking at and become blind to red flags in her.
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